Steve Spitz knew early in his life that he differed from the other children in school. He learned differently, he processed in atypical ways, his mind wandered in class. That he grew up with a devoted family who loved him unconditionally was a blessing that softened the edges of challenges, yet it was only a short time ago that he was diagnosed as neurodiverse and went from embracing his differences to the power of understanding them.
With no shortage of good friends, his life has always been filled with joy and adventure. He has a unique ability to make others feel valuable and graceful in his presence. Simple really; he sees the value and grace in others, and knows how to express it in a flash. He never dissembles. He presents himself as is and sees others the same way.
Steve has recently seen his world expand with a starring role in the uplifting and illuminating Netflix special Love On The Spectrum (Steve appears at 16:08). Modest as he is, he says it is surreal that so many people recognize him on the street. They know him by his smile and his rich vibrant voice. They are rooting for him to find his romantic match.
To hear Steve talk about his life growing up in San Francisco, his distinguished family history, the things he loved to do, his adventurous streak, the memories that are the strongest is a walk down a beautiful Memory Lane. His recollections about trying to fit in with the other boys when he was clearly on another path is a precious lesson in the struggle for self-definition. His descriptions of his parents, what they valued and how they instilled what is important is the best kind of unconditional love in both directions. Steve’s mother’s down-to-earth lessons in what to look for in a woman will surely hold him in good stead as he looks to dating.
What about love letters? So many prospects even for a man who has not yet found his dream-woman. Steve’s pondering the possibilities is a wonderful moment in self-discovery. I say do yourself a favor and take a look at Steve talk about life.
Personally, I would be eager to hear what he wants to say maybe in a love letter of memory and gratitude to so many people in his life. Maybe he will come back and share it with us. I hope so.